There are several possible deaths for Robert in Bolton. However, 1860 fits well with family split up and his son John being in lodgings in 1861.
Lancashire Death indexes for the years: 1860 MATHER Robert 51 Eastern Bolton EB/32/283
Name: Robert Mather Death Date: Jun 1860 Cemetery: Tonge Cemetery Burial or Cremation Place: Bolton, Metropolitan Borough of Bolton, Greater Manchester, England Has Bio?: N
Name Robert Mather Register Type Burial Death Date 1860 Burial or Cremation Date 14 Jun 1860 Burial or Cremation Place Lancashire, England
The Robert Mather that died 8 Jul 1889 at Poulton-le-Fylde, Blackpool of correct age 78 was born 7 May 1811 so is another.
General Notes
Robert Mather born 16 Nov 1812 (and baptised 8 Jan 1813) was the son of Richard Mather and Hannah Knowles. NOTE: The Robert Mather that married Ann Ainsworth is another older Robert.
In 1832, Robert was witness (with X mark) to his older brother William's marriage to Ellen Cunlive.
20 Apr 1834, Robert Mather, a (cotton) spinner, married Mary Carr, but had no children (that survived) until 1839.
In 1835, Robert was witness to his sister Rachel's marriage to John Entwistle.
In 1841, Robert and Mary (both 25) were at Ormond's Houses, Lowton, Leigh with son John (2). Thomas Moore (aged 14) was also with them. After Robert died, it was Thomas who in 1861 would take in Nancy and Peter.
Between 1839 and 1851, John and Mary CARR had their 5 children (all birth records show mother's maiden name CARR) in W Bolton, E Bolton, Sharples and then back to W Bolton.
In 1848, Robert Mather aged 36, was imprisoned for 4 months for larceny. This Robert (Machine/Calico Printer) may be the one the married Mary (Ann) Walmsley at Manchester in 1827 and were in Salford in 1841, athough age is spot on!
In 1851, Robert and Mary (both 28 but should be 38) were lodging at 29 Andrew Street with John, Nancy and Peter (12, 7 & 4) Their daughter Elizabeth wasnt born until the end of 1851.
Occupation Details
From 1834 to 1841 Robert's occupation was Cotton Spinner in Lowton.4
Occupation Notes
Spinner when married and Cotton Spinner in 1841
From 1844 his occupation was Cotton Spinner in Sharples. He died in 1860 while still employed there.
Occupation Notes
Spinner in Sharples when Nancy baptised in 1844.
Cotton Spinner at Andrew(?) St, E Bolton in 1851
Robert died in 1860 (although Spinner in 1864 when Johh Married)
Robert and Mary were married in a religious ceremony on April 20th, 1834 at St. Mary (Deane) by Curate Edward Hayes and witnessed by Abraham Boardman & James Rothwell.5
Marriage/Union Notes
Marriage: 20 Apr 1834 St Mary the Virgin, Deane, Lancashire, England Robert Mather - (X), Spinner, this Parish [Deane] Mary Carr - (X), Spinster, this Parish [Deane] Witness: Abrm. Boardman; James Rothwell Married by Banns by: Edward Hayes Curate Register: Marriages 1833 - 1837, Page 37, Entry 109 Source: LDS Film 2113070
Marriages to Ellen Croft (1840) and Elizabeth Hill (1844) were sons of Thomas, and to Nancy Turner (1840) was the son of James. Marriage to Agnes Rankin 15 Sep 1844 (no parent shown) at Burnley (Bolton RO/1/167), looks like it was a Scottish couple (from later census records).
Not the John, son of Robert and Mary Ann. That John was from Pendleton, baptised at Manchester and his father was a machine printer.
Born 2 Mar 1839 according to US Naturalization Record Indexes,
Aged 12 in 1851, born Bolton Aged 22 in 1861, born Bolton Aged 27 in 1870, born England (with Betsey 25)
Aged 24 in 1870, born England Aged 34 in 1880, born England Aged 50 in 1897 (when married), born England Aged 53 in 1900, born March 1847 England Aged 69 in 1910, born England
Lancashire Birth indexes for the years: 1839 MATHER John CARR Western Bolton WB/3/241
MATHER, JOHN CARR GRO Reference: 1839 M Quarter in BOLTON UNION Volume 21 Page 116
He died at the age of 77 on April 20th, 1916 in Lawrence.7
Death Notes
Robert was 69 in 1910 and had started using his correct age again. By 1920, he had died and Martha was head of house, Widowed.
U.S. City Directories, 1916, Massachusetts Lawrence Mather John (Martha) died Apr 20 1916 Martha widow, John h 19 Willows.
The Nancy Mather that died 1869 was the wife of James Mather, so NOT this death: Lancashire Death indexes for the years: 1869 MATHER Nancy 27 Western Bolton WB/38/472
Instead, Wills and Probates: Name: Nancy Sanderson [Nancy Mather] Gender: Female Race: White Age: 51 Birth Date: abt 1858 Birth Place: England Death Date: 8 Jul 1909 Death Place: Lawrence, Massachusetts, USA Father: Robert Mather