Abraham may be of Halifax (while a Soldier), Manchester (where he married) or Haslingden (baptised and first wife Sarah lived). He had connections to all three places.
Abraham of Halifax when married In Manchester when daughter Sarash born
Name: Abraham Madder Baptism Date: 29 Nov 1790 Parish: Haslingden, Lancashire, England Father's name: William Madder Mother's name: Peggy Madder Register Type: Parish Register Reference Number: Pr 3016/1/8
Abode: Lower Lane (John also born also Lower Lane but later records look like Town Lane)
Note: There is another Abraham Mather, son of Daniel Smalley Mather of Bolton, born 29 May 1791
Name: Jane Mather Baptism Date: 2 Jun 1816 Parish: Manchester, St Mary, St Denys and St George Father's Name: Abraham Mather Mother's Name: Margaret Mather Archive Roll: 757
Aged 34 in 1851, born Manchester Aged 45 in 1861, born Manchester
Name: Sarah Mather Baptism Date: 30 May 1819 Parish: Manchester, St Mary, St Denys and St George Father's Name: Abram Mather Mother's Name: Margaret Mather Archive Roll: 757