In 1861, James (10 mo) was recorded as James Mort, living at Pendleton with James and Ellen Mort. More likely he was with William Wane, loger (16 and possibly an uncle) and parents Thomas and Agnes Mort (i.e. should be Tonge). There may be two families living together.
James lead a double life, a bigamist with two families. First he married Janet. After 1888 he started a family with a younger Mary Ann Ashall and between 1895 and 1909 had 5 more children by her. Interestingly, both partnerships had a daughter Agnes (his mother's name).
In 1880, James, 20, Engineer, of 6 Radle Street, Pendleton, son of Thomas Tonge a fireman married Janet Hepburn (Scottish), daughter of Daniel, a Dyer.
Between 1881 and 1888, James and Janet had Agnes (who died), Margaret and James. The family split up and Janet went off to live with her brother.
In 1891, James, a coal miner (born Pendleton, aged 30), is boarding with Samuel and Jane Cook (and their two infants) at St. Helens.
In 1901, James and Mary Ann are at "Miners Back Cottages", Newton in Makerfield.
Sometime after 1901, James and Mary Ann split up when Mary Ann found out about James's other family. By 1911 they were well seperated!
In 1911, James Mather (48) and his son James (10) were boarding with the Twist family in Bettys, Carmarthenshire, both Surface Banksmen working at the local Colliery.
In 1937, James was a "Tonge" again, living in Salford, born 13-June-1860, a retired miner, and widow.
In 1943, James died in a poor house in Manchester and was buried in a communal poor grave. The death has him as James Mather "otherwise" Tonge.