John Buist: Born 11 Oct 1918 Maternity hospital, Glasgow, Lanarkshire, Scotland. His mother died there 3 days later.
John Graham Born 10 Oct 1919 according to death record, but believed to be an error as thought by family to have been born 11 Oct 1918 (which records confirm). He had retired at 65 prior to his death.
Name: GRAHAM, JOHN RAMSAY MMN: (blank) Gender: M Year: 1918 Ref: 644 / 8 / 1372 RD Name; ST ROLLOX (NE Glasgow)
Must be son of Alexander, Duncan or George if Alexander and Christina are John's grandparents. Unlikely Duncas as he was fighting WW! in France. Very close likeness to George.
He died by commiting suicide at the age of 65 on September 3rd, 1984 in Tranmere. He was buried at the Bebington Cemetery.23
Death Notes
Buried in Catholic section of cemetary, although not Catholic.
Mum (Joan) has newspaper cutting of the obituary column.
Name: John Graham Birth Date: 10 Oct 1919 (should be 1918 - unconfirmed) Death Registration Month/Year: Sep 1984 Age at death (estimated): 64 Registration district: Birkenhead, Cheshire Volume: 37 Page: 481
GRAHAM, JOHN 1919 GRO Reference: DOR Q3/1984 in BIRKENHEAD (0371A) Volume 37 Page 481
GRAHAM, John of 83 Mallory Road, Higher Tranmere, Birkenhead died 3 Sept 1984. Probate Liverpool 8 Feb.
General Notes
With 5 Johns in the family, John Graham Snr was known as "Big John" by the Mather Family.
The birth was registered as John Buist at St Rollox, Glasgow. When 2, he was recorded on the census as John Buist Graham..
John was illigitimate, and his mother, Williamina Buist was believed to be a local barmaid. She died in 1918 just 3 days after John was born, so John was brought up by his father's grandparents (Alexander Graham and Christine S McFarlane).
His mothers family were unable to look after John. Williamina father was a single parent, a farm labourer. Her mother had died when she was 18.
John was brought up by Alexander Graham, his step-father (and grandfather). John's blood-father was probably George Sharp Graham. He would have been 16 (and his mother Williamina 23) when he was consieved, so this may be a wrong information as George was young and also quite an age difference. Perhaps more likely, his father was Duncan McFarnan Graham. Duncan was killed in Action in WW1 so maybe his parents adopted John is memory of Duncan. However just look at the photos. Surrley John is George's son.
In 1921, John Buist Graham, adopted son, aged 2, was living at 8 Fourth Street, Bonhill, Dunbartonshire with his adopted parents Alexander and Christina (48 & 45) and three of their children; Alexander, George and Jeanie (24, 19 & 14). Their other son Duncan had died in the war.
After WW2 he lived at 50 Thompson St, Tranmere (by Eileen)
Occupation Details
John's occupation was Accountant full time in finance for Cammell Laird Shipbuilders, in Birkenhead.2
1894, Dr Alexander Sharp Graham knew that his father had an affair when he was young and that he had a half-cousin John Graham. He informed John's children (John and Julie) of this at John Graham Snr's funeral.