Source: 1900 Census, where she is aged 11, born June 1888.
In the 1910 census she is:
1910 United States Federal Census
about Herbert L Miller
Name: Herbert L Miller
Age in 1910: 4
Estimated birth year: 1906
Birthplace: New York
Relation to Head of House: Grandson
Father's name: Henry F Miller
Father's Birth Place: New York
Mother's name: Sarah J Miller
Mother's Birth Place: New York
Home in 1910: Andover, Tolland, Connecticut
Marital Status: Single
Race: White
Gender: Male
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
James W Gray 47
Cora E Gray 44
Mary E Gray 13
Harold L Gray 11
Henry F Miller 27
Sarah J Miller 22
Herbert L Miller 4
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For some reason we didn't source that little family very well but because someone else had her (Sarah J Gray) married to a Frederic Austin Rathburn I went back to see what I had seen before. Mine was correct but he was also as she (Sarah Julia Gray) married twice. The researcher does not have past James W. Gray and so you would be helping him out, I suspect, unless he has some juicy oral history.
He basically has the dates of FAR as 1864-1945 and SJG as Jun 2, 1888- Dec 1963. Their two children - Grace P. Rathburn b c. 1917 and Charlotte N. Rathburn b c. 1925 both still living. I do not know how he is related if he is. It wasn't clear on his tree.
His sources were:1900, 1920, 1930 Census and Soc Sec Index. Interesting that living with them in the 1930 Census is an Elain C. McDonald, age 2 2/12, a niece whose mother was born in New York and whose father was born in Conn.
There are several Rathburn families in Hebron, Conn.