• General Notes

  The Lady Mary Boleyn (c. 1500 - July 19, 1543) was granddaughter to Thomas Howard, 2nd Duke of Norfolk, daughter to Elizabeth Howard and leading diplomat Thomas Boleyn, 1st Earl of Wiltshire, sister to George Boleyn, Viscount Rochford and Anne Boleyn (by whose fame she has been eclipsed).
  Mary was the mistress of Henry VIII of England and is purported to have been mistress of Francis I of France as well. She was married twice to members of Henry's court and bore children who were in the court of her niece Elizabeth I of England.
  
  Mary was born in Blickling Hall in Norfolk sometime between 1499 and 1504. She is generally believed to have been older than her famous sister Anne, though there is some controversy regarding this. It was once believed that it was Mary who spent time as a companion to Archduchess Margaret of Austria, daughter of Maximilian I, Holy Roman Emperor and Mary of Burgundy, but it is now clear that it was Anne.
  
  In her biography of Anne Boleyn, Joanne Denny writes that Mary's grandson, Lord Hunsdon stated he was certain that Mary was the elder sister. In 1597 he claimed the Earldom of Ormonde through his grandmother. If Anne had been the elder sister then it would have been her daughter, Queen Elizabeth who would have had the right to the title.
  
  Several books mention that Mary Boleyn accompanied Mary Tudor, daughter of Henry VII of England and Elizabeth of York who had become the new Queen consort of Louis XII of France, to France, as Maid of Honour. While many of the Queen's English maids were ordered to leave France, Mary Boleyn was allegedly permitted to remain, probably because of her father's connections as the new English ambassador.
  When Mary Tudor left France after Louis' death on January 1, 1515, Mary Boleyn allegedly stayed in the court of the new king and queen, Francis I and Claude of France.
  
  This is believed to have led to Mary becoming mistress to the new king of France who reportedly called her "my English mare" and "a great whore, the most infamous of all" in his later years. Many believe this story, given that Mary subsequently later embarked on numerous, scandalous affairs. As for the rumor regarding Francis I of France, there is no definitive proof. It is generally accepted by many historians.
  Her sister Anne and her father eventually joined her in France, both of them apparently mortified by Mary's actions. She was sent home in either 1519 or 1520 following the illicit marriage of Queen Mary Tudor. She was then placed in the service of Catherine of Aragon, daughter of Ferdinand II of Aragon and Isabella I of Castile. Catherine had served as the Queen consort of Henry VIII since June 11, 1509.
  
  Shortly after going back to England, February 4, 1520, Mary married Sir William Carey, a courtier. Henry VIII was a guest at the couple's wedding, and Mary soon became the king's lover. Popular legend states that Mary bore Henry two illegitimate children, but this seems unlikely. One witness did note that Mary's son had a strong resemblance to Henry VIII, but this could have been conjecture, flattery or a lie. Henry usually acknowledged all male bastards as his own and when he finished with Mary he had not yet fallen for her sister Anne, thus meaning that there was no reason for him to deny paternity of the child if he had been the father. Furthermore, recent evidence suggests that Mary's youngest daughter Catherine was not born until 1529, by which time Henry's affair with her had been over for almost six years. Mary's children both bore the surname of Carey and it is not true that Sir William Carey received his knighthood and lands because he was married to the king's mistress or official father of the king's bastards. Even before his marriage to Mary Boleyn, William Carey was a prominent courtier and a favourite of the king who would have gained such rewards inevitably.
  
  Mary's sister was called back to England in 1522, and it is uncertain how much effect either sister had on the rising fortunes of their father, who was created a Viscount in 1525. But, by mid-1523, Mary's affair with Henry was finished. A year or so later, Henry fell victim to the charms of the brilliant, bewitching and cultured Anne Boleyn. After many attempts by Henry to seduce Anne, she boldly told him that she would only be his Queen and wife, not his mistress. For nearly six years she kept the King waiting, denying him any sexual favors. But Henry was determined, not to mention infatuated with Anne to the point of citizens suspecting witchcraft on her part. By 1527, he had proposed marriage.
  A year later, when Mary's husband died during an outbreak of the sweats, Henry VIII promptly granted Anne Boleyn the wardship of her nephew (and possibly his son), two-year-old Henry Carey. At the time of William's death, Mary was pregnant with his daughter - who was born in 1529 and named Catherine. Anne arranged for Mary's son to be educated at a respectable Cistercian monastery. Mary's callous father showed no intention of helping her in the financial plight resulting from her husband's death. It was only Anne's intercession with Henry that secured Mary a small annual pension.
  
  When Anne went to Calais with Henry VIII in 1532, Mary was one of Anne's companions. Anne was crowned Queen on June 1, 1533. In 1534, Mary secretly married Sir William Stafford, an usher of no rank and small income. When this was discovered, her family disowned her for marrying beneath her station, and the couple was banished from the Court.
  In late 1534, while her father and brother received numerous grants, titles, and other gifts, Mary was reduced to begging Thomas Cromwell to speak to Henry on her behalf. Mary hoped Henry would persuade Anne to forgive her but her former lover was less than helpful. So Mary asked Cromwell to speak to her father, her uncle, and her brother to no avail. Anne sent Mary a magnificent golden cup and some money. This partial reconciliation was the closest the two sisters ever came again, since they did not meet between 1534 and Anne's death in 1536.
  Her life between 1534 and her sister's execution on May 19, 1536 is difficult to trace. Mary did not visit her sister when Anne was imprisoned in the Tower of London. Nor did she visit their brother George also condemned to death on charges of treason (they were accused of incest). There is no evidence that she wrote to them, either. Like their uncle, Thomas Howard, 3rd Duke of Norfolk, she may have thought it wise to avoid association with her disgraced relatives.
  She seems to have resided at Rochford, Essex and lived out the rest of her days in anonymity with her husband. She died on July 19, 1543.
  
  It is actually possible that Catherine was the elder of Mary's first two children, as the exact dates are still uncertain.
  Both children have been suggested as illegitimates of Henry VIII of England, although many historians consider this to be unlikely.
  Her marriage to Sir William Stafford (d. May 5, 1556) resulted in the birth of a son. He is considered to have been born in 1535 and to have died in 1545; there was also a daughter, named Anne. This, however, is open to much speculation.
  (From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)
  
  

Details of Mary 's family with William Carey