Mary Carr

• Birth Notes

  Both 1841, and 1851, Mary and Robert are the same age, so Mary probably born about 1812.
  
  Married in 1834 so assumed be over 17, born before 1817.
  25 in 1841 (rounded, so born about 1816 to 1820
  28 in 1851 (should be 38 ?)
  33 in 1858 (when died)

• Death Notes

  Mary must have died between Q4 1851 (when Elizabeth born) and 1861 census when children are with other family members.
  
  If born soon before 1817, then most likely the Sharples death.
  
  LancashireBMD shows age at death and has few possible deaths for Mary Mather in Sharples (i.e. registered Bolton or Bury):
  1) 1851, South Bury, aged 40
  2) 1857, East Bolton, aged 53
  3) 1858, Sharples, aged 33
  4) 1858, East Bolton, aged 48
  5) 1861, West Bolton, aged 55
  6) 1862, Little Bolton, aged 56
  
  Lancashire Death indexes for the years: 1851
  MATHER    Mary    40    Bury South    BS/9/71
  
  or
  Lancashire Death indexes for the years: 1858
  MATHER    Mary    33    Sharples        SH/4/493
  
  or
  Lancashire Death indexes for the years: 1857
  MATHER    Mary    53    Eastern Bolton    EB/28/24
  
  There are 6 different MATHER marrying Mary in Bolton 1844 to 1851, so  the Sharples death is quite likely another.