Previously married to a man named WICKENS.1861 Census, 7 April. PRO Ref. RG 9, Piece 489, Folio 61b & 62.Westerham, Kent. Mary STEER, Head, Wid, Age 50, Char Woman,birthplace Worth, Sussex. James WICKEN, Son in law, Unm, Age 19,Lab, birthplace Westerham, Kent. Elizabeth WICKEN, Daur in law,Age 12, birthplace Westerham, Kent. Frederick STEER, Son, Age 4,Scholar, birthplace Westerham, Kent.1871 Census, 2 April. PRO Ref. RG 10, Piece 924, Folio 63b.Westerham, Kent. Address Lodge Lane. Richard HISTED, Head, Marr,Age 64, Carpenter (Jourm), birthplace Croydon, Surrey. MaryHISTED, Wife, Marr, Age 62, birthplace Worth, Sussex. HenryCAFNY, Grand Son, Age 2, birthplace Westerham, Kent.